Showing posts with label mindy kaling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mindy kaling. Show all posts

Thursday, 2 October 2014

Female Funny


A recent BBC News report stated that box office sales for female comedians has increased to 14% from just 2% back in 2009. With Sarah Millican and Miranda Hart being the biggest female lives draws in the last five years. How brilliant. I absolutely adore a whole bunch of different female stand up comedians and comedic actresses so it's great to hear that more people are enjoying female comedians. I really can't see the negative in a statistic like that.


However, very interestingly, I have been reading a lot about how a specific form of comedy that prominently female comedians are using is in fact damaging to female empowerment. Many female comedians use a self deprecating style of humor that leaves audience laughing along with them while simultaneously laughing at them. Is this damaging the empowerment that these female comedians have? It can and has been argued that this enables audiences to lose their respect and admiration for the female comedians due to their own seemingly lack of self confidence and self love. A recent, interesting example of this is via American actress and comedian Mindy Kaling, who we all know, i literally adore. However, I have noticed as of recent that many fans are gushing about how much they love Kaling's humor in the US T.V show The Mindy Project but find that the use of that trusty self deprecating sense of humor is damaging towards to her overall sense of power and female strength. During much of The Mindy Project, Kaling's weight and size are often touching points for comedy, whether Kaling's own character is mentioning her apparent size difference to other girls, or whether her co-stars are quipping about her eating habits and it can be argued that this enables the opinion that women of Kaling's size are indeed abnormal and suitable for comedy but no other genre.


Personally, I'm exceptionally guilty of using self deprecating humor in my own life. If I'm self conscious about something then I'll definitely make a joke about it first so that others can't and you can argue that perhaps female comedians are doing the same. However, personally, I believe that this sense of humor is only becoming problematic for female comedians because audience are still not seeing them as equal and fair game within comedy. Stop treating them like delicate flowers that cannot use their own apparent 'short comings' as ammo as to make being pee themselves laughing. You get your fair share of male comedians using the same kind of humor and never do you find people criticizing them, accusing them of risking their empowerment because of it. Grow up. Men have flaws. Women have flaws. Should one be able to use theirs to create a career and not the other? No. If I could make a career making fun of some of my flaws, you bet I would.

What do you guys think though? Can female comedians still hold a sense of power in the entertainment industry while using self deprecating humor as their main style? Let me know!

Saturday, 13 September 2014

Mindy, will you marry me?

Can we PLEASE talk about how much I love Mindy Kaling? Yes, OK? Great because I LOVE MINDY KALING! Reading Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me has allowed me to crush harder than I though possible and she is truly a fabulous role model. I beg any young woman that want's to crack the male driven entertainment industry to read this book and basically take on a kind of Kaling hybrid version of yourself. She is a staple example of a group of incredible women, along side the likes of Tina Fey and Amy Poehler that are soon becoming the kind of hero's girls so desperately need. Move over Miley Cyrus, Kaling's got this teen idol job down.

I could quit easily write a whole post dedicated to how gorgeous she is and how badly i wish I could dress like her everyday. I spend far too much of my lunch break trolling through her instagram to see what she's wearing and how she's rocking her curves. I have serious hip envy. However, I thought I'd better share with you the real reason why she's my role model. This girl dominates every professional situation she's in. As my other half will tell you, I watch The Office US repeats all day long, so reading how she worked her way into the predominately male The Office writing staff and slayed with some of the funniest scenes out of the entire show fills me with that gooey warm hearted sensation that 14 year old's feel when they watch One Direction. Or maybe 20 year old's watching O.D? Hey, I'm not judging. Not only that but she played one of my favorite characters ever, Kelly Kapoor, who just sums up everything I find funny AND check this out, she freaking produced half of the show. Seriously, triple threat much? She has my dream life and if I'm not careful this fantasy of us becoming BFF's may get out of hand.

My love and admiration for Mindy Kaling only intensified when The Mindy Project graced our UK screen and my buddy Jess and I found a new rival for our affection towards Mindy; Chris Messina aka Dr. Danny Castellano. Damn girl, how about that casting? Can i get a round of applause for the casting director? However, after lengthy discussion and many 'snapchats', Jess and I determined that as easy on the eye as Dr.. Castellano is, Miss Kaling really is the whole package.

Within Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me not only do we get an insight into how Kaling worked her way to the business & entertainment Queen she is now but also chapters such as Don't Peak in High School, Best Friends Rights and Responsibilities and In Defense of Chest Hair allow us to laugh along at her quick and relatable humour that made me love her in the first place. READ IT. She's brilliant.



Elly